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3 Reasons Why I Highly Appreciate My Husband

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There are so many reasons why actually, but I only want to give 3 of the best reason’s why I do appreciate Marlon, my husband, my best friend, best critique, enemy and partner in all things I do in life. We are best together and we can never be perfect for each other, day to day we grow as husband and wife and our friendship flourish like a beautiful flower each morning. Let me and allow me to be thankful for all his efforts every day.

 

He is the Man – he makes sure to be responsible for his decisions, and he takes responsibility for what he said. We will have an argument, planning a lot of crying, from me, (hahaha), but he will stay rationale on looking at things. In which way we always come up with the best decision ever! Where both of us will be really happy with the final end result. He never calls anyone, yes, that includes his friends, family, Mom or Dad when we have concerns on our own. The Goal is, fix it on our first and if it doesn’t work then it is time for some advice to consider.  Which leads me to become a person of discretion, I have learned to be quite at times that I wanna shout, call my sister, my Mom and let everyone know I am in misery. I have learned not to panic when decisions are made and resulted in another problem. Instead, we both take time to talk about things and breathe and then laugh it out. There are times when we see ourselves laughing like crazy of things happening around us. He is my best friend and he makes things simple in an eye of a complicated woman in me.

 

He is the HandyMan– yes, we don’t spend a lot of time and money calling someone to repair and fix something in the apartment. He can:

  1. Paint, the wall and everywhere
  2. Fix the floor
  3. Do Electricity
  4. Plumbing
  5. Repair all things like closet door, doorknob and all other broken anything
  6. Cook (steak that I can’t, and all Belgian delightful food that I like, hahaha)
  7. Clean the window, like a pro (haha)
  8. Repair the car (It’s his job anyway)
  9. Now, he is also expert with Laia
  10. He cleans the house and helps me a LOT! and many other more skills he has!Mama and Papa

He is very supportive– in anything and everything that I do. He believes in me when no one does. He sees my vision of life with me together we believe it will happen. I have so many failures and he stays beside me. He has a very good listening skills, though sometimes he forgot too, normal as a human being. But, he is 200 percent with me in everything. With my dreams, my plans, my feelings. I guess that is the real essence of being married to someone you love unconditionally. You don’t look and count the mistakes you are making, but the lessons you have for each other. We have fun laughing at our ideas in life, we cry together and he hugs me when I need it. He is not, no not good in massaging my back, but he tries.

We have so many indifferences that we are still discovering together, but acceptance plays a big role every day. He doesn’ have regrets in his life, young life, has been lived well and fun. So, his last year on the 30th number, now 39th. Before he goes 40 next year, I asked if he has doubts and regrets? No is the answer. He is a happy man, with a happy chosen career and now a happy father to Laia and a husband to me.

 

Happy birthday Papa! I love you and Laia!

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Floby Villaralvo

I’m a Mom, a wife, and a home-builder, key-note speaker. I write about personal development for women, motivational articles out from my daily experiences, from the past and today. I believe in life simplicity, friendship, and love. I have decided how to be happy every day through writing, there are so many values I have learned and still is learning. Sharing is caring, so if you would find my articles helpful-spread the love!

31 Comments

  1. samantha
    22/01/2018 at 6:37 pm

    Awwww, Such a touching post. I love to see wives support their husbands, as I think to often we see the posts like “Why I don’t make my husband’s lunch”. My husband is also the handyman, he is getting to be an expert woodworker.

    • Floby
      22/01/2018 at 11:09 pm

      I am happy to share goodness to the world! Spread love! Thank you for reading! 💟

  2. Ashley
    22/01/2018 at 6:56 pm

    This is the sweetest! So wonderful to uplift our husbands so they know how much they are appreciated!

    • Floby
      22/01/2018 at 10:10 pm

      As everyday he never wakes me up to give him coffee..he knows I am tired nursing the baby. Thank you for the love!

  3. Miranda
    22/01/2018 at 6:59 pm

    I love posts where partners are supporting each other. He sounds like a catch!

    • Floby
      22/01/2018 at 10:11 pm

      Indeed he is! Haha! Thank you dear!

  4. Sara
    22/01/2018 at 7:46 pm

    This is cute! I have joined several mom groups on facebook and it feels so negative. Everyone is just constantly complaining about their hubbies.. This was refreshing!! I love when people can see the good in people!
    You are a lucky wifey 😉

    • Floby
      22/01/2018 at 10:11 pm

      It is nice that we are sprinkling positivity! Thank you for reading! 💟

  5. Cherie
    22/01/2018 at 10:06 pm

    This is such a beautiful post. I recently wrote an open letter to my
    Husband to thank him for all that he does. I fomd I naturally focus on the negatives, but am trying to concentrate on the positives more.

    The video was a lovely touch.

    Cherie

    • Floby
      22/01/2018 at 10:13 pm

      Thank you Cherie. The video as from our wedding. I would like to put on subtitle in English for everyone to understand. It was spoken in our mother language in the Philippines since now my husband speaks french. He had hard time catching up his lessons.

  6. Raquel
    22/01/2018 at 10:54 pm

    How sweet of you Floby and your husband as well.. Keep the love and the faith..

  7. Claudia
    22/01/2018 at 11:05 pm

    Awesome way to praise your husband and show your appreciation for him! I’m sure he feels so loved! #waytowifeit

    • Floby
      22/01/2018 at 10:13 pm

      Love the hashtag! 💟

  8. Jami Ray
    22/01/2018 at 11:32 pm

    So sweet! And I’d say being handy in all those areas is a major win!

  9. SIMONE
    23/01/2018 at 12:11 am

    Your husband sounds like a good man! One day I hope to have the same. What a blessing to have a partner who takes their vowels seriously. I pray you all continue to love and honor each other. Wishing you many more happy years together!

  10. Lauren
    23/01/2018 at 12:35 am

    Aww this is so sweet. What a great way to honor your hubby!

  11. Kimberly
    23/01/2018 at 5:15 am

    This is such a sweet post! I love that you show your husband that you appreciate him. It sets a great example for wives!

  12. Ashley
    23/01/2018 at 2:50 pm

    What a sweet post to your husband!

  13. Marjie Mare
    23/01/2018 at 3:30 pm

    A supportive husband or partner is important in any relationship, being handy-man is a bonus.

  14. Arin
    24/01/2018 at 2:00 am

    This is such a sweet post!! and I am a little jealous that your husband is so handy haha

  15. Brittany
    24/01/2018 at 3:30 am

    So sweet, you sound very lucky to have him as your husband and he lucky to have such a caring wife!

  16. Christie | Simply My Bella Vida
    24/01/2018 at 4:47 am

    This was a very sweet post! There aren’t enough encouraging marriage posts out there so I appreciate you shining light on your marriage!

  17. Angel
    24/01/2018 at 11:32 pm

    Quality man! That’s so great that you have that kind of husband on your life.

  18. Jennifer Corter
    25/01/2018 at 1:42 pm

    This is such a sweet post! So wonderful to have such a great guy in your life!

    • Floby Villaralvo
      26/01/2018 at 2:28 pm

      Thank you for reading me and yes I am very proud of him!

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  20. Poetry of Roads
    05/02/2018 at 6:40 pm

    Hahaa… happy to see the deserving person getting appreciated. It’s a pity that not many sweethearts are liberal enough to shower appreciation for their unsung heroes 😛

    • Floby Villaralvo
      05/02/2018 at 6:53 pm

      Husbands are really are hero. 😂

  21. Lady Lisaa
    06/02/2018 at 5:41 pm

    Yup absolutely right. I agree with you. Husband is the person we complete each other. Accept our weaknesses.

  22. Sade king
    06/02/2018 at 6:57 pm

    Awww this was nice.

    • Floby Villaralvo
      07/02/2018 at 8:16 am

      Thank you he is feeling a bit famous now. Hahaha

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